Dear K.O.P., for the first dozen years of my life
I never looked at myself. I believed mirrors
bore no true social significance partly because
they hung on walls. Convinced, then,
in the last thin quarter of the century,
that I was a colorless American boy, without detail
perhaps I should confess my very first brush with love
involved a white girl and empty dryer box.
I smelled, if I recall, the scent of damp cardboard,
which was a scent not altogether unlike my father’s
olive green Army-issue boot socks, and so it was
that as I and my little cob-webbed nymph
(as I have thought of her ever since) attempted
to make a singular glistening smile, I thought again
and again that my father was walking barefoot
nearby with a boot in each fist. I felt
the ominous pre-tingling a soldier feels
when he waits in a trench at the start of a great war
though that was not a year of war, if you recall,
but a year of myriad insignificant misdemeanors
and dumb disputes. I thought too, that the girl
had dropped down into my arms from a nest
of the July, late afternoon darkness blooming
in the upper corner of the box because her hair
danced and dangled across my brown wobbling head
like something made in the belly of a spider,
and I half wondered then when I would learn
what magic it was that gave some creatures the power
to spit a thread almost thinner than light. I decided
I’d ask my father later when I sat on his chest
full of sprawling powder-white women,
and removed his boots and then his socks,
but of course I didn’t, having been struck dumb
by something (the color or length of his toes,
the tiny grid pattern the socks left on his ankles?).
It doesn’t matter what, since any boy who spends
an afternoon with a girl in a box is prone to forget
his questions. I too had a bizarre über-hunger
for companionship as a boy and have gone on having it,
as I presume you have, ever since. When I pressed
my palm against the girl’s back, I felt first
the impression of her skin inside the white blouse,
and then the bones of her spine
and I thought of the tiny, tiny spines
in all the animals inside and around the box
when we found it there at the edge of the park.
The stray dogs had spines shaped like my father’s
belt, the squirrels and field mice had spines
shaped like the smallest limbs of the saplings;
I thought briefly of grasshopper and ant spines
before considering the spinelessness of the earth-
worms uncoiling in the mud beneath the box.
Mostly I learned what I know of myself
by holding my tongue still and I’m wondering
how it was with you? Anyone can go back
to Fayetteville, where the summers were clear
as water, and I’m assuming you too sat
at half open windows and listened to the world?
Perhaps I shouldn’t say yet what it was you and I were
waiting for, Cousin, but I’ll say it never arrived.
Dear Michael, I have never had to lookDear K.O.P., this is not a letter
in mirrors. Or rather everything I look into
(magazines, screens, walls, doors, glass)
is a kind of mirror. Everywhere I look
I see my face. Thank you for sending
the autographed photograph. And thank you too
for the sequined glove! Your hand
must be so small and naked now without it.
The interior reminds me vaguely of fresh wood,
or maybe the inside of a cardboard dryer box
circa 1975, the year I kissed a black boy
named Clarence or Terrance or Tyrone.
He was a skinny moth-boy as shy as you.
Sometimes I wonder what would have happened
if I’d let that black boy stay inside
my mouth . . .
from one of the white girls you met
backstage in Columbus or Lincoln, but from me—
your friend, pretending to be a white girl
in the hope that this time, you might reply.
O to be in the head of a pretty white girl!
It’s nearly impossible even for a black boy
raised late in the era of integrated cafeterias,
MTV and soap operas. By now your experiment
must be nearing its sad inevitable conclusion as well . . .
Are you asking yourself: Am I the beginning
of beauty or am I the end? I’m fairly sure
that’s not something white girls ask themselves,
though it’s something everyone thinks
about them. Africans, Asians, Martians, Apes—
they love them some white girls and you
have to wonder: is it all the PR (from Helen
of Troy to Mary Christ to your Elizabeth Taylor)?
PS thank you for the egg sized diamonds.What’s the deal with you and Elizabeth?
PS thank you for the cashmere panties.
PS thanks you for the box of 12th century BC
Mayan chocolates. PS thank you
for the Ming chamber pot. Yours, Beth.
What’s the deal with you and Diana,
the Butch Diva, for that matter?
Once you could have had anyone.
I can still remember your hyper-glow socks
and fly tuxedo. Sometimes my thoughts drift
to Billie Jean, that condemned anonymous woman . . .
What ever happened to her and that baby?
(Dear Michael, finally the cameras look inWhat’s a brother got to do to get an answer,
another direction. Our child grows
in a big nosed quiet. He sang to himself
in the womb like you. I tell him
he has a bevy of uncles who once loved
synchronized dancing; who live now
somewhere nose to nose in a crowded mansion.
Baby, I don’t believe in music anymore. )
Brother? If, by chance, this is the first of my letters
you are reading (I’ve written dozens
over the years), let me say again
that I understand a man’s hunger for company.
When I moved North and phoned home
to tell my momma I’d fallen in love,
she asked me if the girl was white and I snapped,
"No Ma, she looks like you!"
That’s got to be one of the most outrageous
questions my mother has ever asked me
(or maybe the most reasonable).
Take love where you find it; water is the color
of what it holds and all that.
What’s your mother think of your hair
and lipstick? Of all the girls’ noses
pressed at your limo window in 1982,
which did she most adore?
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